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Androgynous-having both female and male characteristics. Being neither distinguishably masculine nor feminine, as in dress, appearance, or behavior. (Thefreedictionary.com)

 

Usually the term androgynous is loosely used to describe a woman-most of the times to describe a sexy woman wearing masculine clothing or with short hair. At times used in the wrong context to describe a lesbian.

I have never heard a man being described as androgynous. If a male possesses certain female characteristics, people jump to the conclusion that he is gay, which is wrong!!

We all are familiar with the term yin and yang. In Chinese philosophy it is used to describe polar or contrary forces that are interconnected and interdependent. In fact, in Hinduism Ardhanarishvara is an androgynous deity composing of a synthesis of male and female energies.

All of us whether male or female have the yin and yang characteristics in us. That is where women get their strength and men their gentleness. Can you imagine a female sans the male traits…gosh she would be so whiny. In the same vein, can you imagine a man who is an epitome of muscle and masculinity ALL the time….gosh that would be so primitive!!

Earlier, I had written a blog on female androgyny as related to fashion. So to fairly balance the yin and yang, today is the turn of the males.

Androgyny in men is nothing new. For centuries men have been wearing jewelry, had their ears and noses pierced and put kohl in their eyes. In fact Ancient Egyptian kings have been buried in the mummies with kilos of jewelry to adorn them in multiple after lives.

Indian Maharajas wore statement pieces starting from the embellishments in their turbans to earrings, necklaces, bracelets, rings, toe rings and anklets. Roman emperors have been known to wear jewelry.

 

 

 

 

What about the rappers and hip hop artists of modern day? A rapper whose songs are littered with profanities and innuendos of violence (masculine traits for the most part) will not forego a chance to wear “bling” anywhere and everywhere!! The MO’ THE BETTA!! Don’t you think it is a way of exploring his female side?

The Chanel 2011 runway fashion show is an example of male androgyny. You can see a male model sashaying down the runway wearing a beautiful statement necklace strategically placed against his smooth hairless chest. A piece bold and dramatic enough that a fashion-timid woman would think twice before wearing!

 

 

Fashion truly blurs the lines between men and women. The ad campaign of Marc Jacobs had a man wearing a dress and mind you, it is quite an eye-catching ad! In fact, Marc Jacobs has admitted to wearing dresses and has worn a skirt with his hairy legs.

 

Bloggers like BryanBoy walk around in heels, toting a woman’s purse and wears the latest MiuMiu dresses. He aspires to acquire the crab-claws six inch Alexander McQueen heels.

Now even though nature has bestowed upon us humans both the male and female characteristics, I am not saying that all males will be overtly comfortable with such fashion. The run of the mill male will stick to his faded jeans/shorts and t-shirt or khaki pants and checkered shirt.

As stylish, fashion forward thinking audience such as the ones I have, don’t you guys think it is worth getting in touch with your female side? Who doesn’t want to look good, irrespective of the gender? How about taking baby steps you Alfa Males and starting with a colorful fitted shirt paired with some cool velvet loafers. If you are daring don a hat!! Wear a cool, musky cologne. Trust me it will make a great difference in your style, sex and confidence quotient.

Magnanni shoes, Neimanmarcus.com

Etro Neimanmarcus.com

 

  • I totally agree with you about “baby steps”.. As a male I am thinking to buy a kilt and wear it very casually.
    It’s summer time here in Australia and I see lots of girls wearing loose shirts “the boyfriend shirt”.. and some of them looks quite fabulous. Of couse guys wouldn’t wear a caftan because it won’t look goog.. but if they know the word of “how good you look and how comfortable you look” they might stop thinking what other people would say about them
    Accessories is a must have piece for everybody!!

    Hopefully lots of people will read this post because has a major “fashion education” story.
    ps.. Bryan Boy is a different story! not my style.

    LOx

  • Actually, I believe prince was considered quite androgynous in his Purple Rain days – ruffled shirts, velvet jackets and pants with knee high boot with high heels. Michael Jackson also crossed the line and wore Balmain clothing from the women’s line. Last I knew – no one thought Prince was gay. In today’s time, Adam Lambert pushes the androgyny envelope all the time and women FLOCK to his concerts. Confession: I have been to two of them!!

    To the commenter above (Hi Lee) You should totally go for the kilt thing! Here in the US men can purchase cargo kilts, a skirt with lots of pockets useful to men. I have been trying to convince my husband to buy one and he is tempted but a little too self-conscious at the moment go for it! How sexy – a man in a skirt!!
    Ambu – please come to Vegas!!
    http://www.fashnlvr.blogspot.com

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